The Haggadah transforms us into storytellers; we are the feeders of history. We enlighten, impart, lead, and illuminate one another with lively discussions and creative Seders.
Passover is an exquisite opportunity to tell the stories of our people, to remind ourselves that the journey to freedom is ongoing and to inspire each other to acts of courage.
We can do all this with joy and song! We are pleased to share these resources for your Passover Seder. Chag Sameach! .
Children and adults join together in the sacred task of memory and hope as we remember together the destruction of European Jewry. Survivors of the Shoah, together with our students, witness together the possibilities of courage, goodness and hope. Check the calendar for the date of this very special service.
For the past decade, the Congregation Kol Ami Men’s Council has distributed Holocaust Memorial “Yellow Candles” to be lit by our congregants on Erev Yom HaShoah, which this year is the evening of April 11. This year, as we celebrate the revival of spring, let us both pause to recall the 6,000,000 losses that we suffered, and let us also rededicate ourselves to the constant and never-ending struggle against evil and hatred. It is a small thing – to light a candle of remembrance – but it can be an important and moving moment in the annual cycle of Jewish life in our families and our community.
We invite you to light the memorial candle in your home at sunset on April 11, Erev Yom Hashoah, both in honor of the victims of the Holocaust and as evidence of your personal commitment to never allow it to happen again. Read aloud the meditations we have provided on the Kol Ami website with this letter. For those of you with children or grandchildren, use this as an opportunity to discuss the Holocaust and its meaning. The act of kindling the flame and reading the meditations, or sharing your own thoughts and prayers, can be a moving reminder of the loss our people suffered not long ago, and how it affects us to this day. Use it also as a reminder of the need to be vigilant to prevent its recurrence anywhere in the world.
Meditations
Light the Yom HaShoah Yellow Candle at sunset on April 11, 2018, and recite the following.
As we light this Yellow Candle, we vow never to forget the lives of the Jewish men, women, and children who are symbolized by this flame. May we be inspired to learn more about our six million brothers and sisters as individuals and as communities and to recall their memory throughout the year. May we recall not only the terror of their deaths, but also the splendor of their lives.
May we also recall the others who perished, and the righteous of all faiths who risked their lives and the lives of their families in order to save innocent lives during the Shoah, the Holocaust.
May the memory of all their lives inspire us to hallow our own lives and to live meaningful Jewish lives, and move us to acts of courage and compassion.
Talking to Your Children and Grandchildren about the Holocaust
The Yom HaShoah Yellow Candle is symbolic of a deep Jewish need to remember and teach. As parents and grandparents, our first instincts are usually to protect our children from harm, both physical and psychological, and to shelter our young from contact with ugliness and death, chaos and uncertainty. But if we are to help mold competent, caring Jewish citizens of the world, we must help our children confront and cope with the parts of life that cause us pain, doubt and discomfort.
As the generation of Holocaust survivors diminishes in living numbers, it becomes increasingly incumbent upon all committed Jews to perpetuate the memory and lessons of the Shoah by imparting to our children, in age-appropriate ways, the terrible tragedy and unfathomable evil which consumed 6,000,000 Jews and countless others. What follows are suggestions for engaging children and youth in an understanding of the importance of lighting, honoring, and feeling the flame of this Ner Zikaron (memorial candle.)
Art Expresses Our Deepest Emotions: Various artistic representations can be used to present ideas to children (ages 5-12) with the harsh issues of the Shoah without terrifying or traumatizing. Two wonderful sources are: The Promise of a New Spring, by Gerta Weissman Klein, a children’s book comparing the Shoah to a consuming forest fire resulting in an ultimate rebirth and renewal of the ravaged forest, and a videotape, The Journey of Butterfly, beautifully documenting the art, poetry and lives of countless children who struggled to survive in Theresienstadt, a ghetto concentration camp north of Prague.
The Butterfly
The last, the very last
So richly, brightly, dazzlingly yellow.
Perhaps if the sun’s tears would sing against a white stone . . .
Such, such a yellow
Is carried lightly ’way up high.
It went away I’m sure because it wished to kiss the world goodbye.
For seven weeks I’ve lived in here,
Penned up inside this ghetto
But I have found my people here.
The dandelions call to me
And the white chestnut candles in the court.
Only I never saw another butterfly.
That butterfly was the last one.
Butterflies don’t live in here,
In the ghetto.
Pavel Friedman (b. 1921; perished Auschwitz, 1944)
The period between Pesach and Shavuot is called the “Counting of the Omer” (sefirat ha’omer), after the ancient rite of the bringing of the first sheaf (omer) of the barley harvest to the priest (Lev. 23:9-14). Lag Ba’Omer is the shorthand way of saying the thirty-third day of the omer. It is celebrated to commemorate the day a plague ended in which thousands of students of Rabbi Akiba, a Talmudic scholar, died during the Counting of the Omer. The period of counting is traditionally observed as a period of mourning. The mourning, however, is set aside on Lag Ba’Omer, making it a day of special joy and festivity.
Lag Ba’Omer is not mentioned in the Torah and only hinted at in the Talmud. Consequently, there is no formal ritual, but rather a series of customs that the people found attractive and meaningful.
Many weddings take place on Lag Ba’Omer. In the Israeli traditional community, it has become a day when three-year-old children get their first haircuts. Parties and picnics abound, and at least in Israel, hundreds of people attend midnight bonfires and many children carry little bows and arrows.
Shavuot is one of the three major pilgrimage festivals of ancient Israel and occurs seven weeks after Passover. Shavuot marks the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai. Like so many other Jewish holidays, Shavuot began as an ancient agricultural festival, marking the end of the spring barley harvest and the beginning of the summer wheat harvest. Shavuot was distinguished in ancient times by bringing crop offerings to the Temple in Jerusalem.
The Torah tells us it took forty-nine days for our ancestors to travel from Egypt to the foot of Mount Sinai (the same number of days as the Counting of the Omer ) where they were to receive the Torah. Thus, Leviticus 23:21 commands: “And you shall proclaim that day (the fiftieth day) to be a holy convocation!” The name Shavuot (“Weeks”) then symbolizes the completion of a seven-week journey.
Special customs on Shavuot include the reading of the Book of Ruth, which reminds us that we too can find a continual source of blessing in our tradition. Another tradition includes staying up all night to study Torah and Mishnah, a custom called Tikkun Leil Shavuot, which symbolizes our commitment to the Torah, and that we are always ready and awake to receive the Torah. Traditionally, dairy dishes are served on this holiday to symbolize the sweetness of the Torah, as well as the “land of milk and honey”.
On Erev Shavuot, we celebrate the giving of the Torah to Israel at Mt. Sinai with a Confirmation service led by our tenth-grade class. At this point in their on-going Jewish education, our tenth-graders celebrate a public affirmation of their commitment to live as Jews. On Shavuot morning, our worship service includes Yizkor, a service of remembrance for our loved ones.
Tisha B’Av, the ninth (Tisha) of Av, commemorates the destruction of both Temples (the first in 586 BCE and the second in 70 CE).
A brief history of the building and destruction of the First and Second Temples.
The First Temple in Jerusalem was constructed during the reign of King Solomon (965 b.c.e.–925 b.c.e.). Solomon’s father, King David, had wished to build the Temple, but was not allowed to do so. The Bible relates that God disqualified David because of his many military campaigns. The Temple was to be a holy place, a place of peace. Therefore, only a king who had not shed blood could bring it into being. Thus, Solomon, whose Hebrew name was Shlomo (from shalom, peace), inherited this sacred task.
Solomon built the First Temple with the assistance of King Hiram of Tyre. Hiram sent his Phoenician artists and builders magnificent stone from his nation’s quarries and the beautiful cedars of Lebanon to aid in the task.
The finished Temple was an awesome structure. Situated on a mountain 2/500 feet high, it had courtyard, a sanctuary, and a small room called the Holy of Holie, entered only once a year by the high priest. It was in the Temple that the kohanim (priests) offered the ancient sacrifices on behalf of the people, assisted by the Levites.
In 586 b.c.e., the Babylonian army surrounded Jerusalem. Led by their general, Bebuchadnezzar, they broke into the city and conquered it. Then, on the Ninth of Av, they destroyed the Temple. The Jews were sent into exile, crushed and despondent. According to some scholars, the prophet Jeremiah, grieving for the Temple, composed Psalm 137, in which he wrote: “By the waters of Babylon, we lay down and wept for thee Zion.” A people who had grounded their entire religious system in a priestly Temple structure suddenly had it torn away from them.
Even as he mourned, Jeremiah still had hope. He told the people that they would one day return to Jerusalem and rebuild the Temple. He was correct. Some sixty years later, Persia conquered Babylonia, and the Persian King Cyrus allowed the Jews to return home. They rebuilt the Temple but it was not nearly as magnificent as Solomon’s Temple had been. Still, the Jews rejoiced, for once again they had an opportunity to be led by their priests and to offer sacrifices in their holiest site. It was this rebuilt Temple that King Antiochus defiled in 168 b.c.e., and which the Maccabees reconsecrated three years later. But the Building of the Second Temple was yet to come.
The Second Temple was enhanced and expanded during the first century b.c.e by King Herod, one of the cruelest rulers in Jewish history. Deciding that the rebuilt Temple was not to his liking, Herod decided to expand it. He partially leveled the previous site, then oversaw the construction of a Temple that rivaled that of Solomon’s in grandeur.
Herod had intended to continually add new structures to the Temple grounds, but the work was never completed. In 70 c.e., Roman legions, led by the General Titus, conquered Jerusalem and destroyed the Temple. It was the Ninth of Av. Once again, the Jews were sent into exile, this time to Rome.
Some historians have expressed doubt that the actual destruction of both Temples occurred on the Ninth of Av, but there is no disputing the fact that the day became a symbol of Jewish tragedy. The synagogue ultimately replaced the Temple. [New forms of worship and religious leadership were created.] But Jew continued to hope and pray that the Temple would be restored. The prayer book and songs expressed this yearning, and Tishah B’Av became a vehicle for expressing that deep sorrow.
We’re proud to have won this award at the 2016 URJ Biennial in Boston.
2017 Belin Award Press Release Kol Ami
The White Plains/Scarsdale Refugee Resettlement Group, led by Congregation Kol Ami applied with the Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society to host a Syrian refugee family in December 2016. Recently, the group was notified that a family of five was granted access to the US and that we would be the host!
The resettlement group is committed to helping in this humanitarian effort and particularly in response to the tragedy in Syria. We need your help in providing the resources to sustain this family through their transition to self sufficiency.
To help us you can donate by check payable to the Kol Ami Refugee Resettlement Fund or online.
This statement was circulated to Westchester clergy following the recent bomb threats against Westchester JCC’s. It is another demonstration of our will to come together and to affirm our most deeply beliefs that we are each created in the Divine Image. We have all been awakened out of our complacency; the spiritual challenge of these days is to “stay woke.”
